- Show love with hugs, smiles, kisses, talking and looking directly into your baby’s eyes.
- Remember that your baby cries to communicate with you.
- Understand that giving attention to a baby is not spoiling; when you respond to your baby’s cries and coos consistently, his learning is stimulated and he develops trust.
- Talk to your baby even before she seems to be able to understand what you are saying, and she will soon talk back to you.
- Imitate his coos and sounds; diaper changing, feeding, bathing and dressing are good times for you to talk with your young child.
- Say your child’s name in a cheerful, caring voice.
Really listen when your child talks to you. - Avoid calling your child names when discussing her behavior.
- Encourage and support your child by showing appreciation for his accomplishments.
- Improve your child’s self-esteem by teaching her how she can help others.
- Say “yes” and “I love you” more often than you say “no” or “don’t”.
- Make sure that your child has regular health exams and receives all appropriate immunizations (shots).
- Seek help from specialists if you have concerns about your child’s development or need extra help during times of family stress.
Demonstrate in ways she can understand that she is unique and special to you.