Sunday, February 17, 2008

Show you love them

Talk, sing, play, and read with your child every day.

  • Talk and sing with your child, as this is a first step in language development.
  • Understand that singing and listening to music is good for your child’s development.
  • Provide a safe place for your baby or toddler to roll, crawl, and explore. If possible, “child-proof” the entire home.
  • Sit and play on the floor with your child daily, knowing that children learn through play with simple toys and household items such as pots, pans, bowls, and wooden spoons.
  • Recognize that daily supervised outdoor play, including running, climbing, swinging and sliding helps children develop strong bodies and minds.
  • Realize that when you and your child play “pretend” together, she is learning to use her imagination and understand her world.
  • Spend time each day reading to your young child, watching for her cues to continue or quit.
  • Look at books, talk about the pictures and the story; this will teach language and new words.
  • Try different voices for the characters in a book and encourage your child to act out the story.
  • Play rhyming games, recite nursery rhymes and do fingerplays to help your child notice the sounds of words.
  • Help your child notice words and other print in the world around you.
  • Understand that sharing a favorite book with a caring adult can provide comfort to a child, as well as a love of books and reading.
  • Limit TV watching and when you allow your child to watch, sit with him and talk about what you see, remembering that young children should not watch the news or adult programs.
  • Get a free library card so that you can visit the library often and check out a variety of books.

Make sure your children know they are loved!

  • Show love with hugs, smiles, kisses, talking and looking directly into your baby’s eyes.
  • Remember that your baby cries to communicate with you.
  • Understand that giving attention to a baby is not spoiling; when you respond to your baby’s cries and coos consistently, his learning is stimulated and he develops trust.
  • Talk to your baby even before she seems to be able to understand what you are saying, and she will soon talk back to you.
  • Imitate his coos and sounds; diaper changing, feeding, bathing and dressing are good times for you to talk with your young child.
  • Say your child’s name in a cheerful, caring voice.
    Really listen when your child talks to you.
  • Avoid calling your child names when discussing her behavior.
  • Encourage and support your child by showing appreciation for his accomplishments.
  • Improve your child’s self-esteem by teaching her how she can help others.
  • Say “yes” and “I love you” more often than you say “no” or “don’t”.
  • Make sure that your child has regular health exams and receives all appropriate immunizations (shots).
  • Seek help from specialists if you have concerns about your child’s development or need extra help during times of family stress.

Demonstrate in ways she can understand that she is unique and special to you.

Simple Tips on how to discipline a child,





Children
Learn What They Live
If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,
he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,
he learns justice.
If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
he learns to find love in the world.
By Dorothy Law Nolte

As a parent sometimes it's really difficult for us to dicipline a child. We ask our selves sometimes if we do the right thing. Many of us do it without thinking, we must control our emotions coz if not we may regret it in the end. Parents are the role model for our children, they observe us and immitate what we do, so be careful of doing anything.... We love our children isn't it? So we must dicipline them with love, don't ignore them, give time for them even little of your time were really appriciated so much. Sometimes we parents does not show our love to our children try to say their no harm in doing it. I have simple tips here for us parents on how we dicipline our children.
  • Remain calm and discipline with love and consistency.
  • Understand that discipline should teach, not punish; it is setting limits with both firmness and kindness.
  • Show respect for your child so that he will learn respect for others.
  • Learn about stages of child development so that you will know what behavior you can expect at different ages.
  • Prepare your child for new situations, so that he will know what you expect and feel confident and secure.
  • Create dependable, predictable routines for your child.
  • Encourage exploration and curiosity in safe surroundings.
  • Remember that infants and toddlers test limits because of their curiosity and eagerness to learn, not to make you angry.
  • Distract and redirect your child’s attention when his behavior is unacceptable.
  • Encourage positive behavior by using positive guidance techniques.
  • If necessary, short time outs (no longer than 1 minute per year of the age of the child) can help you and your child regain self-control.
  • Remember that spanking, hitting or shouting may stop behavior immediately but may teach that violence is the way to settle issues.


Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Saying I love You in different languages

Valentines Day!
I was with my husband an hour ago. We decided to celebrate our valentines day by going to church and renewing our "vows". Theirs a mass and many couple are also there like us renewing our Vows and also thanking our creator for all those years that we spent together. I was really happy that there are gathering like that for married couple to be united once again infront of the altar reminising all that we've been thru all these years. I almost cry on thanking God for giving me such a wonderful husband nothing to ask for more but all I want for that moment is to thank him for all the blessing that he showered me. I did'nt say that it was a perfect marriage but I am happy for what is going on with us, in our relationship not only as couple but also as friends.... This is the first time I experience this and my friend who invited me to go their said that this is only done the 2nd time it was last year that they started celebrating this occassion. Wonderful is'nt it .... And when I got home still in the middle of happiness I am thingking on how our people say I Love You in their special way... like by saying it in different languages so when I got home I try to search it on the web and trying to collect it little by little until I gather it all. Different countries , different languages even dialects wow... It was so amazing that even if it's different way to say it their is only one meaning in all. "Saying how you feel is very important and saying how you love someone makes that person really happy... It's really great also how to be love this is the reason we still living and surviving... So don't hesitate to say you love that person try to make yourself happy.
Here are the thing I got hope we all enjoy reading and learning it....
Happy reading..............


Africa Language "I Love You" Translation

Afrikaans - Eh het jao lief
Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
Akan ( Ghana ) - Me we do
Amharic - Ene ewedechalu ( for ladies )
Amharic - Ene ewedehalwe (for men)
Arabic - Ana Ahebak (to a male)
Arabic - Ana Ahebak (to female)
Arabic(Formal) - Ooheboki (to a female)
Arabic(For mal) - Oooheboka (to a male)
Arabic - b'n hebbak
Arabic - Ana Ba-heb-bak
Arabic - Nhebuk
Bari ( A Sudanese Language) - Nan nyanyar do ( I love you)
Bari - Nan nyanyar do parik (I love you very much )
Berber - Lakh tirikh
Creole - Mon kontan ou
Ga - misumo bo
Hausa - Ina sonki
Hausa - Ina kau narki (to female)
Hausa - Ina kau narka (to male)
Kikuyu - Nigwedete
Kisii - Ninguanchete
Lingala - Nalingi yo
Luganda - nkwagala nyo
Luo -Aheri
Malagasy (Madagascar) - tiako ianao
Ndebele - Ngiyakuthanda
Oshiwambo - Ondi ku hole
Mbe - ku suvera
Punu - ni u rondi
Shona - Ndinokuda
Sotho - Kegorata
Setswana - Ka gorata
Swahili - Nakupenda
Thamazigh - nekki hemlagh (from a woman to a man)
Thamazigh - nekki hemlaghkem (from a man to a woman)
Tigrinia - E fatuwaki
Tunisian - Ha eh bak
Wolof -Dama la nob
Wolof - Dama nob danga
Wolof - Nob naa la
Xhosa - ndiyakuthanda
Yoruba - Mo ni ife re
Zazi - Ezhele hezdege
Zulu - Mena Tanda Wena
Zulu - Ngiyakuthanda!

Asia Language "I Love You" Translation

Arabic - Ana Behibak (to a male)
Arabic - Ana Behibek (to a female)
Arabic - Ib'n hebbak
Arabic - Ana Ba-heb-bak
Arabic - Nhebuk
Arabic (formal) - Ooheboki (to a female)
Arabic (formal) - Ooheboka (to a male)
Assamese - Moi tomak bhal pau
Azerbaijani - Men seni sevirem
Batak - Holong rohangku di ho
Bengali - Ami tomay bhalobashi
Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi
Bicol - Namumutan ta ka
Bisaya (Filipino dialect) - Gihigugma ta ka
Burmese - chit pa de
Cambodian - Bong salang oun
Cambodian -kh_nhaum soro_lahn nhee_ah
Cantonese -Ngo Oi Lei
Cebuano -Gihigugma ko ikaw
Chinese -wo aì ni
Farsi -Tora dust midaram
Farsi (Persian) -Asheghet Hastam (romantic)
Farsi (Persian) -Dooset Daram (parent to child)
Filipino -mahal Kita
Filipino -Iniibig Kita
Gujarati -Hoon tane prem karun chuun
Hindi - main tumse pyar karta hoon (guy)
Hindi - main tumse pyar karti hoon (girl)
Hindi (Kannada) - Naanu ninnannu premisuththene
Hmong - Kuv Hlub Koj
Hokkien - Wa ai lu
Illonggo(Filipino dialect) - palangga ta ka
Ilocano (Filipino dialect) -Ay aya tenka
Indonesian - Saja kasih saudari
Indonesian - Saya Cinta Kamu
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Indonesian - Aku cinta padamu
Japanese - Kimi o aishiteru (male to female)
Japanese - Aishiteru
Japanese - Ora omee no koto ga suki da (Northeastern dialetct)
Japanese - Ore wa omae ga suki da (Male to Female)
Japanese - Suitonnen (Western dialect)
Japanese - Sukiyanen (Western dialect)
Japanese -Sukiyo (Female to Male)
Japanese - Suki desu (used at 1st time, like for a start, when you are not yet real lovers)
Javanese (Indonesian dialect) -aku tresno marang sliromu
Javanese (Indonesian dialect) - kulo tresno marang sampean
Javanese (Indonesian dialect) - Kulo tresno kaleH panjenengan.
Kachiy - anw toke pyaar karati
Kachiy - anw toke bowaj gurati
Kapampangan (Filipino dialect) - kaluguran da ka
Korean - Nooreul sarang hae (casual relation)
Korean - Tangshin-i cho-a-yo (i like you, in a romantic way)
Korean - Jeonun Dangshinul Sarang Hapnida
Korean -Jeonun Dangshinul Mucheok Joahapnida
Korean - Nanun Niga Joa
Korean -Nanun Neoreul Saranghe
Korean - Nanun Neoreul Saranghanda
Korean - Neoreul Hjanghan Naemaeum Alji
Lao -Khoi huk chau
Luo - Aheri
Maduranese (Indonesian dialect) - sengko' tero ka be'na
Malay - Saya Cinta Mu (pronounced: Saya Chinta Mu)
Malay -Saya sayangkan mu
Malay/Indonesian - Saya sayangkan engkau
Malay/Indonesian -Saya cintakan awak
Malayalam - Njyaan Ninne' Preetikyunnu
Malayalam - Njyaan Ninne' Mohikyunnu
Malayalam - Ngan Ninne Snaehikkunnu
Malaysian - Saya Cintamu
Malaysian - Saya Sayangmu
Malaysian - Saya Cinta Kamu
Malaysian - Aku Cinta Padamu
Mandarin - Wo Ai Ni
Marathi - me tujhashi prem karto (male to female)
Marathi - me tujhashi prem karte (female to male)
Marathi - Mi tuzya var prem karato
Mienh - Yie hum may
Mongolian - bi chamd hairtai
Nepali - Ma timilai maya garchu, Ma timilai man parauchu
Persian - Tora dost daram
Persian - Ashegetam
Punjabi - Mai taunu pyar karda
Punjabi - Main Tainu Pyar Karna
Sinhalese - Mama oyata adarei
Sudanese (Indonesian dialect) - Abdi bogoH ka anjeun
Tagalog (Filipino dialect) - Mahal kita
Tagalog (Filipino dialect) - Sinisinta kita
Taiwanese - Wah ai ni
Tamil - Ni yaanai kaadli karen (You love me)
Tamil - n'an unnaik kathalikkinren (I love you)
Tamil - Naan unai kathaleakarenn
Telugu - Neenu ninnu pra'mistu'nnanu
Telugu/India - Nenu Ninnu Premistunnanu
Thai - Ch'an Rak Khun
Thai - Phom Rak Khun
Urdu - Mein tumhay pyar karti hun (woman to man)
Urdu - Mein tumhay pyar karta hun (man to woman)
Urdu - mujhe aap se mohabbat hai
Uzbek - Man seni sevaman
Vietnamese - Em ye'u anh (woman to man)
Vietnamese - Toi yeu em
Vietnamese - Anh ye'u em (man to woman)

Oceania Language "I Love You" Translation

Australian - I Love you, mate (Ok, they don't say mate)
Chamorru (Guam & northern Mariana Islands) - Hu Guiya Hao (pronounced: who gwai-dza how)
Gilbertese (The Republic of Kiribati) - itangiriko
Maori (New Zealand) - kia hoahai
Pidgin English - mi laikim yu
Samoan - Oute Alofa Ia Te Oe
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tongan - Ofa atu

Greenland Language "I Love You" Translation

Eskimo - Nagligivaget
Greenlandic - Asavakit
Icelandic - ég elska þig
Icelandic - Mér þykir vænt um þig

Caribbean Language "I Love You" Translation
Cayman - I love You
Cayman - You conch me out!
Creole (Haiti) - mwen renmem'w
Creole (Haiti) - mwen damou'w
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Papiamento (Aruba) - Mi Ta Stimabo
Papiamentu (Curacao) - Mi Stima Bo
Patois (Jamaica) - Mi luv yuh
Spanish - Te quiero (I really-really care for you)
Spanish - Te Amo
French - Je t'aime

Europe Language "I Love You" Translation

Albanian - Të Dua Shume
Alsacien - Ich hoan dich gear
Armenian - Yes Kezi Seeroom yem
Armenian - kezi shad ge seerem anoushig
Armenian - kezi ge sirem
Basc - Nere Maitea (basque?)
Bavarian - I mog di narrisch gern
Bulgarian - ahs te obicham
Catalan - T'estim (mallorcan)
Catalan - T'estim molt (I love you a lot)
Catalan - T'estime (valencian)
Catalan - T'estimo (catalonian)
Circassian - wise cas
Corsican - Ti tengu cara (to female)
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Czech - Miluju Te! (colloquial form)
Danish - Jeg elsker dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
English - I Love You
English - I adore you
Estonian - M ina armastan sind
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Finnish - Minä rakastan sinua
Finnish - Minä pidän sinusta (friendly)
Flemish - Ik zie u graag
Flemish - Ik aanbid u
French - Je t'aime
French - Je t'adore (I adore you)
Friesian - Ik hald fan dei
Gaelic - Tha gradh agam ort
Georgian - me shen mikhvarkhar
German - Ich liebe Dich
German (Swiss) - Ich liäbä Dich
German - Ich hab'dich lieb (friendly)
German - Ich bin in dich verknallt (teen slang)
Greek - S' agapo
Hebrew - Ani ohev otach (male to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otcha (male to male)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otach (female to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otcha (female to male)
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Hungarian - Szeretlek te'ged
Icelandic - ég elska þig
Irish - taim i' ngra leat
Italian - ti amo
Italian - ti voglio bene (friendly)
Italian (Venetian Dialect) - Te vogio bén
Latin - Te amo
Latin - Vos amo
Latin (Ego) - amo te (ego, for emphasis)
Latvian - Es tevi Milu (s teh-vih me-lu)
Lisbon - lingo Gramo-te bue chavala (for girls)
Lisbon - lingo Gramo-te bue chavale (for boys)
Lithuanian - As Tave Myliu (as ta-ve mee-lyu)
Luxembourgisch - Ech hun dëch gäer
Osetian (Ego) - amo te (ego, for emphasis)
Macedonian - Te sakam
Madrid - lingo gramo-te bue', chavalinha
Maltese - Inhobbok
Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg (pronounced: yei elsker dei)
Norwegian - Jeg er glad i deg (to someone you are not married to)
Polish - Kocham Cie
Polish - Ja cie kocham
Portuguese - Eu amo-te
Romanian - Te iu besc
Romanian - Te Ador
Russian - Ya vas lyublyu
Russian - Ya tyebya Lyublyu
Russian - Ya polyubil tebia (male to female)
Scot - Gaelic Tha gra'dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim Te
Slovak - L'ubim t'a
Slovak - Milujem t'a
Slovene - Ljubim te
Slovene - Rada te imam (female to male, female to female)
Slovene - Rad te imam (male to female, male to male)
Spanish - Te amo
Spanish - Te quiero
Swedish - Jag älskar dig
Swiss-German - ich liäbä dich
Swiss-German - ich ha di gärn
Turkish - Seni seviyorum
Tyrolean (Tyrol, Austria) - I liab Di
Tyrolean (Tyrol, Austria) - I mog Di
Ukrainian - ja tebe kokhaju (real true love)
Ukrainian - ja vas kokhaju
Ukrainian - ja pokokhav tebe
Ukrainian - ja pokokhav vas
Upper Austrian (German dialect) - Hob di lieb (friendly)
Upper Austrian (German dialect) - I steh mas voi af di
Welsh - Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ich libe dich
Yiddish - Ich han dich lib

Middle East Language "I Love You" Translation

Arabic - Ana Behibak (to a male)
Arabic - Ana Behibek (to a female)
Arabic - Ib'n hebbak
Arabic - Ana Ba-heb-bak
Arabic - Nhebuk
Arabic - Ohiboke (male to female)
Arabic - Ohiboka (female to male)
Arabic - Ohibokoma (male or female to two males or two females)
Arabic - Nohiboke (more than one male or female to female)
Arabic - Nohiboka (male to male or female to male)
Arabic - Nohibokoma (m. to m. or f. to two males or two females)
Arabic - Nohibokom (m. to m. or f. to more than two males)
Arabic - Nohibokon (m. to m. or f. to more than two females)
Arabic (not standard) - Bahibak (female to male)
Arabic (not standard) - Bahibek (male to female)
Arabic (not standard) - Benhibak (more than one male or female to male)
Arabic (not standard) - Benhibek (male to male or female to female)
Arabic (not standard) - Benhibkom (m. to m. or female to more than one male)
Assyrian - ana bayanookh (female to male)
Assyrian - ana bayinakh (male to female)
Assyrian - ana bayanakh (female to female)
Assyrian - ana byinookh (male to male)
Circassian - wise cas
Farsi - Dooset Daram
Hebrew - Ani ohev otach (male to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otcha (male to male)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otach (female to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otcha (female to male)
Kurdish - Ez te hezdikhem
Kurdish - Tom hojdeve
Persian - Dooset Daram
Persian - Ashegetam
Sindhi - Maa Tossa Pyaar Kando Aaya (male to female)
Sindhi - Maa Tossa Pyaar Kandee Aaya (female to male)
Syrian/Lebanese - Bhebbek (to a female)
Syrian/Lebanese - Bhebbek (to a male)
Turkish - Seni seviyorum
Yiddish - Ich libe dich
Yiddish - Ich han dich lib

North America Language "I Love You" Translation

Canadian French - Je t'aime
Cheyenne - Néméhotâtse
English - I love you
English - I adore you
Hawaiian - Aloha wau i'a oe
Hebrew - Ani ohev otach (male to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otcha (male to male)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otach (female to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohevet otcha (female to male)
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Mohawk - Konoronhkwa
Ojibwe - Niin Zaagii Giin
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Sioux (Lakota) - Techihhila
Spanish - Te quiero
Spanish - Te Amo
Yiddish - Ich libe dich
Yiddish - Ich han dich lib
Zuni - Tom ho' ichema
Other Translations Language "I Love You" Translation
Akadian Iaka Lakaovakae Yakaou
Elven - Amin sinta lle
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Gibberish - idaguy lidaguv yidagoo
Goth - Idugi Ludugove Udagu
Guir - Kari Bari (guy to girl)
Guir - Krai-Brai (girl to guy)
Ishkibibble - Ibi Libove Yibou
Klingon - qud'end
Klingon - qaparha' (depends from where you are in the galaxy)
Lancish - I Lovole Youan
Lojban - mi do prami
Naguan - Mawaca bimcheepee
Op - I Lopovope Yopou
Pig Latin - Ie Ovele Ouye (I-ay Ovel-ay Ouy-ay)
Quenya - Tye-melan'ne
Sliggish - Iish loveish youish
Spencish - I Lovany Yoof
South America Language "I Love You" Translation
Guarani - rohayhu
Portuguese (Brasilian) - Eu te amo
Portuguese (Brasilian) - Eu amo você
Bolivian - Quechua qanta munani (spoken, sounds like this)
Ecuador - Quechua canda munani
Spanish - Te amo
Sranan - Mi lobi joe

Other world-wide "I love you" translations available:

Africa:
afrikaans bari lingala sudanese swahili tunisian zulu more
Asia:
chinese cambodian japanese hindi farsi korean punjabi thai more
Australia/Oceana:
australian tahitian bicol
Europe:
czech dutch french italian polish russian serbian more
Middle East:
arabic hebrew kurdish syrian turkish more
North America:
hawaiian navaho sioux zuni spanish french canadian more
South America:
bolivian ecuador spanish portugese
Caribbean:
cayman l french l jamaican l spanish


Other:
esperanto lojban klingon pig latin op quenya
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